I love to talk with couples about ways they can be more intimate with one another. Intimacy in marriage can be difficult to navigate and it takes a lot of time to reach a deep level. All of the efforts you put in is totally worth it.
How do you enjoy your intimacy more? Here are some of my top tips.Develop a Good Body Image
We equate sexy with skinny, cut abs, tall, and many other things. You should re-define your idea of beauty based off of what your spouse looks like and what you look like.
When you have a good body image, you will feel freer to express yourself sexually. Work to have a better view of yourself just the way you are right here and now. If you want to make changes in the way you look, there is nothing wrong with that. However, if you don’t like the way you look right now, you will end up finding other things you don’t like later on.Experiment With Each Other
There are many wonderful foreplay things you and your spouse can do together. Take the time to explore each other’s bodies. You don’t know what will feel good for you both.
It can be intimidating to put yourself out there for your lover. When you do go out there for your spouse, it will make them feel even more loved. It helps you to appreciate your spouse more when they do things that they know you like.Take Time to Talk Everyday
As much as possible, take the time to talk with one another every single day. The more you talk, the more connected you will feel with one another.
So much of the intimacy you experience in the bedroom comes from what you do with each other during the day. When you take the time to invest in each other mentally and emotionally, you will feel a deeper sense of intimacy when you are being together physically.Flirt With One Another
Don’t ever lose your desire to flirt with each other and let the other person know how they make you feel. Flirting is a great way to spark feelings of love and desire for your spouse.
When you get giddy with each other, whisper sexy things in one another’s ears, laugh, or do smack each other on the butt, you are conveying that you like the other person. Flirting is a great way to keep the spark in your marriage alive.Fantasize About Your Spouse
It is really important that you give yourself permission to fantasize about your spouse. Think about what it’s like to have sex with them. Remember a time that you were intimate and visualize the things you did together.
Visualizing sex with your lover will make your times together even more intimate. You will have the anticipation built up that causes you to let loose with one another.
These are a few ways that you can enjoy your intimate life together more.