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9 ways a wife can strengthen her marriage

Posted on March 14th, 2016 @ 12:30 am in Family by Keelie Reason
9 ways a wife can strengthen her marriage

Whether you have been married for a long time or a short time, it is never too early to do things that will strengthen your marriage. Staying in a long term relationship is not an easy thing to do. It is do-able, but it takes a lot of work. Start now by putting habits in place that will put you on the path to a strong marriage.

1. Go Out On Dates

It is so important to go out with your husband. If you can’t afford to go out, then make date nights at home. You have to get away from life together so that you can connect.

2. Keep Sexual Intimacy a Priority

Even at the end of a long day, you should find time to keep sexual intimacy a priority. Both of you guys should find ways to engage in sex often.

3. Engage in Activities Together

When you do things together, it allows for more conversation and connection. It makes it much easier to talk through things when your hands are busy.

4. Don’t Nag

You aren’t his mom, and he’s not your dad. It is important to remember that nagging doesn’t help him hear you any better. It just comes across as annoying.

5. Kiss Goodbye

Before you guys leave each other, kiss goodbye. Non-sexual touch is a good way to feel closer to one another. Making this a habit is good for your marriage.

6. Look Up When He Gets Home

If you don’t kiss when he gets home, at least look up and acknowledge his existence. He needs to know that his arrival made an impact on you. It will help him to feel cared for.

7. Be Careful What You Say Behind His Back

There are times when you will want to get a friend’s opinion on something that is going on in your marriage. You have to be careful what you say about him to your friend. It can be really easy to go too far in what you have to say. Stay respectful and don’t degrade him.

8. Encourage Him to Do Things He is Passionate About

We all have things that we are passionate about. You have the privilege of investing in your spouse and providing him with the encouragement he needs to pursue things that are important to him.

9. Let Him Know You Are Thinking About Him

Take the time to let your husband know that you are thinking about him during the day. You can text him or give him a quick call if it is appropriate. You could also write a note and put it in his pocket or somewhere he’ll find it.

Taking little steps will allow you to build a good foundation with your spouse. Hard times will come. With a strong marriage, you can weather the storms.

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